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"Where was Stan Tatkin when I was dating? I highly recommend Wired for Dating to anyone who is ready for a secure-functioning relationship. Tatkin addresses the scientific, psychobiological, neurobiological, and intricate ways of the nervous system within the realm of dating, and does so in an utterly readable, practically applicable, wise, and entertaining way."

Alanis Morissette
artist and activist

"Reading Stan Tatkin’s book makes you want to be in therapy with him. With intense and fearless clarity, he takes you into the trenches of the combative human brain and shows you how to make love, not war."

Esther Perel
LMFT, author of The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity

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Stan's latest book:
In Each Other's Care

Do you and your partner ever find yourselves revisiting the same heated argument? Playing out the same disagreement about money, parenting, sex, or household chores. Few things are more frustrating and can leave you feeling disconnected from the person you want to feel closest to.

PACT Training for Therapists

After PACT training, therapists report feeling more capable, confident, and effective in treating even their most challenging couples. Learn more about PACT training.

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