Working with Families – PACT Style family for therapists stan tatkin trauma Jul 17, 2019

 

By Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
PACT Co-Founder
http://thepactinstitute.com

Two main issues face the PACT family therapy process: Structure and Attendance.

Structure

A challenge within typical family therapy is the structure that holds some family members to their particular family roles. While...

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How Secure-Functioning Principles Help Parents Who Are Divorcing divorce edna avraham for therapists secure functioning Jun 26, 2019

By Edna Avraham, LMFT
PACT Ambassador, Level III Therapist
ednaavraham.com

The Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) focuses on helping and coaching couples to “secure” each other in order to reduce threat, thrive, and grow closer. While they are designed for couples who...

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Techniques to Help Distressed Couples Slow Down and Reconnect debra campbell for therapists repair Jun 16, 2019

By Debra Campbell, MS, LMFT
PACT Ambassador, Level 3
gocuris.com/debracampbell.html

When a couple comes to our office, they bring a dynamic in the relationship that pains them.  Neither partner sees the issue in the same way, and they don’t know how to solve it.  Often,...

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Do You Have Your Partner’s “Owner Manual”? for therapists lisa rabinowitz secure functioning May 22, 2019

By Lisa Rabinowitz, LCPC
PACT Level II Therapist
https://baltimorecounselor.com/ 

In your romantic relationship, paying attention to your partner’s responses and attitudes is especially prudent. Observing impressions and reactions can help you become more in tune with a...

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Attunement + Evidence: Using What You Experience to Help Your Clients for therapists lindsey walker May 13, 2019

By Lindsey Walker, LMFT
PACT Ambassador and Level II Therapist
https://lindseywalker.com/

Couples therapists often struggle with how to sort through the many feelings and complicated relational dynamics that arise in couple therapy sessions. You have two people, both hurt. Each come with a...

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Self-Regulation and the PACT Therapist arousal carolyn sharp for therapists self regulation Mar 12, 2019

By Carolyn Sharp, LICSW
PACT Level III Therapist
http://www.carolynsharp.com/

After laughing with Marty about the wonderful date they had, Peter adds, “Of course we had to go to the restaurant you wanted.” With that slight emphasis on going to...

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Pause, Allow, Soften, Breathe, Appreciate: PACT Therapist Self-Care for therapists secure functioning uri talmor Dec 13, 2018

Uri Talmor, M.A., L.P.C.
PACT Level II
Boulder Colorado
http://www.consciousheartintegration.com/

A couple come into my office, already in argument mode. They emanate Neanderthal-reptilian contempt, talking over each other, and perceiving most of what comes out of the other’s mouth as an...

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How Learning to Facilitate PACT for Couples Helped Me Finally Meet the Love of My Life attachment for therapists secure functioning sefora janel ray Nov 20, 2018

By Sefora Janel Ray, MFT
Berkeley, CA
http://therapytothrive.com/

I had no idea when I took the PACT training to become a couples therapist that it would affect my personal life so dramatically. I can confidently say now that the reason I’m in a secure relationship is because I took the PACT...

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Power Dynamics and Management of Thirds: Avoiding Triangulation in Therapy coregulation debra l. kaplan for therapists thirds Nov 14, 2018

Debra L. Kaplan, MA, LPC, CSAT-S
PACT level 1
Tucson, AZ
debrakaplancounseling.com

Couple therapy is challenging, and some clinicians find it too intimidating to attempt. They worry, for example, that a misattuned observation could alienate not just one but both partners....

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Back to School with the 3Rs allison howe for therapists secure functioning Sep 16, 2018

Allison Howe, LMHC 
PACT Level II 
Saratoga Springs, NY 
www.facebook.com/AllisonHoweLMHC

As PACT-trained therapists, it is perplexing when we find ourselves working with a couple who are not moving into secure functioning. There are a number of factors to consider: Is...

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Creating Community, Deepening Intention carolyn sharp community for therapists retreat secure functionng Jul 15, 2018

by Carolyn Sharp, LICSW
PACT level 3 candidate
Seattle, WA
http://www.carolynsharp.com/

One of the richest aspects of the PACT approach is the experiential, embodied nature of the sessions. Over the course of a 2- to 3-hour session, couples develop a felt understanding of one another and of a new...

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When Partners Become Parents: Using Pact to Create a Birth Bubble birth for therapists parents patricia williams pregnancy third Apr 15, 2018

Patricia Williams, LCSW
Westchester, NY & Vermont
PACT Level 2
patriciawilliams.net

As a couple therapist, it has long been a passion of mine to help couples prepare for the birth of a child, not only prenatally but post birth, as well. There is substantial evidence that...

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